Growing up is hard to do. Updating your bedroom doesn’t have to be.

Whether you’ve just moved out of your parents’ house or you’re many years on your own and it’s time for an upgrade, figuring out where to begin when planning your grown-up bedroom can seem like a challenging task. But it’s easier than you might think.

Spend your dollars on the things that will make your bedroom instantly look more mature.  What are those sophisticated elements you’ve been lusting after but putting off? Here are my three tips for graduating to the grown-up bedroom of your dreams.  

1. The Bed

First things first: the bed. If you’re still sleeping on that same old full-size bed you’ve had since your first apartment (or worse, a twin!), it’s high time for an upgrade. Consider purchasing a queen-size bed, or if space allows, a king-size platform bed. The larger frame adds instant maturity to the space and creates a focal point for your adult bedroom.

Tip!

Don’t underestimate a well-chosen duvet set. Soft neutrals add a layer of sophistication while luxe materials like high thread count sheets feel oh-so-adult.

Another element not to be overlooked is lighting. For a balanced, well-lit look, make sure to include three sources of light. To help establish a mature tone, choose a classic color scheme for your fixtures or with a killer silhouette. For example, this gold statement lamp sports a neutral finish, while the ultra-contemporary shape immediately grabs your attention. 

2. Lighting

Another element not to be overlooked is lighting. For a balanced, well-lit look, make sure to include three sources of light. To help establish a mature tone, choose a classic color scheme for your fixtures or with a killer silhouette. For example, this gold statement lamp sports a neutral finish, while the ultra-contemporary shape immediately grabs your attention. 

Tip!

If you choose to go with two different lights for your bedside, make sure they're the same color or finish to ensure a cohesive look.

3. Pillows

Finally, no adult bedroom would be complete without some high quality pillows, so make sure to leave some room in your budget for this. Consider topping your sleep sanctuary with a pair of memory foam pillows to add comfort and structure. When it comes to accent pillows, try layering a variety of sizes on your bed. An easy formula to follow is to add one large throw pillow, a smaller throw pillow in the same shape, and an oblong pillow to complete the look.